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March 25, 2025

Episode 51: Talk Good (Not Bad) About Someone: Share Kind Thoughts

We all know the weight of words—how they can lift someone up or drag them down. In this episode, I flip the usual advice of “don’t talk badly about someone” and instead focus on why we should speak about others…kindly. Whether it’s behind their back or (preferably) to their face, we should try to share more of our positive thoughts and compliments.  

I share personal stories of moments when a simple compliment or comment seemingly shifted someone’s day (and/or confidence), and how being intentional about spreading kindness can create real change. We never truly know what others are going through, and, sometimes, the smallest words of encouragement can make the biggest difference.

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Black cats make up roughly one-third of the total Black cats make up roughly one-third of the total animal shelter population, and yet they have much longer waiting times and lower adoption rates. Sadly, superstitions still play a role in this. ☹️

In Japan, black cats are symbols of good luck! They are said to ward off evil, bring luck in love, and increase financial success and prosperity! 🍀 

We love our lucky Lucy! Have you had a black cat before? Maybe this is your sign to get one! 🖤

IB: @poethevampire 
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I am a main birthday offender too lol 😂 Did you I am a main birthday offender too lol 😂 

Did you know that August ranks as the top birth month, but September has 9 out of 10 of the most popular days to be born on? 🎂 

So if you feel like you did a lot of birthday celebrating this summer, you aren’t wrong lol 🥳
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As promised, sharing more @lotuslandcelebrates/ @l As promised, sharing more @lotuslandcelebrates/ @lotusland_gannawalska clips. This time with SB local icon, @janelynchofficial. An absolute delight! 🥰

🎥: @bstudios_sb/ @gmangriffg 
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I’m not sure who made the “no white after Labor Da I’m not sure who made the “no white after Labor Day” rule, but clearly I’m disregarding 😂🤍

I’m still obsessed with this dreamy shoot at @sanysidroranch with @laurenmaevephotography 🥰
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Golden Hour (literally) ✨ Featuring: @teddybearc Golden Hour (literally) ✨ 

Featuring:
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@godmothersbooks 
@deepseawine 
@sb_fishouse 
@zaytoonsb 
@longboardsgrillsb 
@visitmontecito 
@luckyssteakhouse 

See any of your favorite spots? 🍽️ 
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A perfect weekend escape to Paso Robles thanks to A perfect weekend escape to Paso Robles thanks to @pasoroblesinn 💕

You know I love a rooftop dinner, and @salina_rooftop did not disappoint! The pizzas were so good! 🍕 

Do you enjoy visiting Paso Robles too? It’s a little over a two-hour drive for us, but not bad at all! 🚗 
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