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February 18, 2025

Episode 46: Becoming Your Own Biggest Fan With Boudoir Photographer Jess Fairchild

Who knew that you just needed some studio lighting to see yourself in a completely new light? I chat with the incredible Jess Fairchild, a boudoir photographer who has made it her mission to empower women through her photography. Jess has captured women from all different ages, life stages, and body types. 

I share my recent experience shooting with her for my very first boudoir shoot. Spoiler alert: it was an absolute blast, and I already want to do it again. I walked away feeling so sexy, powerful, and confident, and I am forever obsessed with my photos. 

In this episode, we discuss misconceptions about boudoir, why there’s no time like the present, and what a typical shoot day entails. You’ll learn that boudoir is so much more than sexy photos – it’s a celebration of self-love. 

Want to book your own boudoir shoot with Jess? Mention my name/The Bets Life and save $100! 

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Moira Rose (Schitt’s Creek) advice video

Connect with Jess:

Website: boudoirwithjess.com

Instagram: @boudoir_with_jess

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Visit my website: The Bets Life

Follow me on Instagram: @thebetslife

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Turns out, you’re not supposed to pet the horses Turns out, you’re not supposed to pet the horses. Whoopsies. 😆

Polo season has arrived and I am here for it. From now until October 12th, you can spend your Sundays in style watching exciting matches at @santabarbarapoloclub! 🐎 

Don’t forget to wear a hat and flats or wedges for halftime Champagne divot stomping! 🥂 

Tickets: https://sbpolo.ticketsauce.com 🎟️ 
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Are you also a fan of these things? 🤔 Let me Are you also a fan of these things? 🤔 

Let me know in the comments! 🩷
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If only my hair looked like this every day 🙏 If only my hair looked like this every day 🙏 

Throwing it back to my shoot with @boudoir_with_jess. I already want to do another one lol. If you’re interested, mention my name to save when booking with Jess! 📸 

Have you ever done a boudoir shoot? Are you thinking about booking one? 🤔 

Spray tan: @beautifulyoumontecito 
Hair & makeup: @805makeup 
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And I’m probably wearing a big dumb sun hat and And I’m probably wearing a big dumb sun hat and speaking to the rooster in high-pitched English (on a French island). 🐓 

Oh well lol. 🤷‍♀️ What touristy traits do you embrace when you’re traveling? 😜
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Heading into the weekend like… 😎 Should be a Heading into the weekend like… 😎

Should be a beautiful weekend in SB! ☀️ 

Any fun plans? Patrick planned a fun date night for us tonight, and I can’t wait! 🍸

Outfit: @dylanstarboutique 
Photos: @marracreative 
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Gotta love a DIY project! I had some matchbooks sa Gotta love a DIY project! I had some matchbooks saved, and then we were also gifted some vintage ones! For a first-time project, I think they turned out pretty well! 👏🏻 

Collect your matchbooks and get all the craft materials here: https://www.amazon.com/shop/thebetslife/list/2F6IQ1Q2X7X35?ref_=aipsflist 🛒 

- Mod Podge your matchbooks and matchsticks. You can use a small paint brush or a sponge brush. I found that I had some discoloration on the white/lighter boxes, so maybe do a couple of coats on those to be safe? Or maybe go for darker colors? I did one coat of Mod Podge on everything. I let everything dry out for a day (although, I don’t think you would have to wait this long).

-  Follow the instructions on the box of the epoxy resin. Wear gloves and mix equal parts, stirring together for a few minutes. I mixed in plastic red cups that I later disposed of. Fill the coaster mold cups halfway with the mixture. 

- I waited 1 hour until the mixture was a bit tacky and then I added the matchbooks. The matchsticks/books may move around a bit, and you can always use tweezers to reposition.

- I waited 5 hours and then filled the rest of the molds up to the top with more epoxy resin. Leave molds for 24 hours and then remove. The coasters should pop out easily! 

What do you think of these? Let me know how your coasters turn out too! Share this video with your DIY/crafty friends. 🥰
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