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April 22, 2025

Episode 55: Rethinking Life Milestones: Why we Need to Celebrate More

In this episode, we’re diving into a topic that deserves more space and recognition: the many different ways to celebrate life’s achievements and successes — beyond the traditional milestones of engagements, weddings, and babies. 


Inspired by an iconic Sex and the City episode, (yes, the one with Carrie Bradshaw’s stolen Manolos) I’m chatting about the pitfalls of only celebrating “acceptable” or expected life events, and how we can expand milestone moments to be more inclusive for ourselves and loved ones. 


You’ll hear my take on why it’s time we finally celebrate the big and small wins that don’t always come with showers or registries. I also discuss why life chapters that could be seen as failures or losses need our attention and festivity too (Did someone say divorce party?!). 


Whether you finally achieved the promotion that you’ve been working towards, the dream trip that’s been at the top of your bucket list, or the clean bill of health you’ve been anxiously awaiting, this episode is your reminder that your life occasions are always worth celebrating!

Sex and the City clips:
https://www.tiktok.com/@andjustlikematt/video/7276862601873722666
https://www.tiktok.com/@e_entertainment/video/7187809327908965678

The Golden Girls Ages

Chicken Tikka Masala recipe video

Resources:
https://www.milkbooks.com/blog/inspiration/10-important-milestones-to-celebrate/?srsltid=AfmBOoqT87H6e8z94KQxIKf51E1xcmUjpjRGUXG4DULBomEWn1OntANH
https://www.huffpost.com/entry/milestones-nontraditional_l_651d86b3e4b05c5fe1b75c40
https://theconversation.com/its-not-just-weddings-how-celebrating-small-wins-and-unconventional-milestones-can-bring-joy-197755

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And I’m probably wearing a big dumb sun hat and And I’m probably wearing a big dumb sun hat and speaking to the rooster in high-pitched English (on a French island). 🐓 

Oh well lol. 🤷‍♀️ What touristy traits do you embrace when you’re traveling? 😜
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Heading into the weekend like… 😎 Should be a Heading into the weekend like… 😎

Should be a beautiful weekend in SB! ☀️ 

Any fun plans? Patrick planned a fun date night for us tonight, and I can’t wait! 🍸

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Gotta love a DIY project! I had some matchbooks sa Gotta love a DIY project! I had some matchbooks saved, and then we were also gifted some vintage ones! For a first-time project, I think they turned out pretty well! 👏🏻 

Collect your matchbooks and get all the craft materials here: https://www.amazon.com/shop/thebetslife/list/2F6IQ1Q2X7X35?ref_=aipsflist 🛒 

- Mod Podge your matchbooks and matchsticks. You can use a small paint brush or a sponge brush. I found that I had some discoloration on the white/lighter boxes, so maybe do a couple of coats on those to be safe? Or maybe go for darker colors? I did one coat of Mod Podge on everything. I let everything dry out for a day (although, I don’t think you would have to wait this long).

-  Follow the instructions on the box of the epoxy resin. Wear gloves and mix equal parts, stirring together for a few minutes. I mixed in plastic red cups that I later disposed of. Fill the coaster mold cups halfway with the mixture. 

- I waited 1 hour until the mixture was a bit tacky and then I added the matchbooks. The matchsticks/books may move around a bit, and you can always use tweezers to reposition.

- I waited 5 hours and then filled the rest of the molds up to the top with more epoxy resin. Leave molds for 24 hours and then remove. The coasters should pop out easily! 

What do you think of these? Let me know how your coasters turn out too! Share this video with your DIY/crafty friends. 🥰
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New episode of The Bets Life Podcast! 🎙️ Ep New episode of The Bets Life Podcast! 🎙️ 

Episode 59: Pet Peeves and Secret Talents: Q&A Season Four Finale 🎧 

Season four of The Bets Life Podcast is coming to a close, and what better way to wrap things up than with my first listener Q&A? 🗳️

In this special finale episode, I’m answering your questions—everything from how I try to find balance daily to celebrity doppelgangers, skydiving stories, travel mistakes, and where I order my favorite queso. If you’re ready for some surprising stories and interesting facts about me, this episode will be for you! 😁

I’m also reflecting on what it means to move through life in seasons, what a day in my life looks like, and why I structure my creative work the way I do. From random rapid-fire favorites to deeper reflections on mental health and ambition, this episode is a little bit of everything—fun, honest, and full of gratitude. 🥰

Thank you all for tuning in this season and for being part of this community. Cheers to season four, and I look forward to being back with you all for season five! 💓

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