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May 6, 2025

Episode 57: Feeling Behind in Life? Here’s the Truth You Need to HEar

If you’ve ever felt like you’re falling behind, whether it’s in your career, your relationships, your finances, or just life in general, this episode is for you. (Also, trust me, we’ve all been there.)


In today’s episode, I’m unpacking the pressures to keep up, the myth of “being behind,” and the sneaky trap of comparison. We chat about focusing on what you actually want to achieve (not your friends, parents, or society) and the reminder that life’s successes and failures are not linear. I get candid about how these feelings have shown up in my own life, from weddings and babies to career pivots and personal growth, and why it’s beautiful that we all bloom at our own pace.


I also share a lovely mantra that I discovered that reframes the idea of “falling behind” and instead helps you fall into your own life. 

References:
https://www.trishblackwell.com/how-to-stop-feeling-behind-in-life/
https://clarityonfire.com/feel-behind-in-life/
https://harsh-darji.medium.com/if-you-are-falling-behind-in-life-read-this-4bd422b90515

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Featuring:
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