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March 13, 2023

episode 19: Yes, you do belong here: breaking down imposter syndrome

I’m guessing that you’ve heard of imposter syndrome before or have even dealt with it personally. Don’t worry, you’re not alone if you are currently struggling with this or if you have previously experienced these feelings. Women (specifically women of color) are at a higher risk, and 70% of adults may experience imposter syndrome at some point in their lives.


This episode breaks down exactly what imposter syndrome is, the different types, common characteristics, ways to recognize it, and tips on how to overcome it and change your mindset.


I share my personal stories of imposter syndrome (believe me, been there, done that), and how I can occasionally still slip into that way of thinking. If you are currently in the thick of imposter syndrome, I hope that this episode can provide more information and the tools to stop this experience in its tracks. 

References:


https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/imposter-syndrome
https://www.apa.org/gradpsych/2013/11/fraud
https://www.verywellmind.com/imposter-syndrome-and-social-anxiety-disorder-4156469
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZQUxL4Jm1Lo

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Turns out, you’re not supposed to pet the horses Turns out, you’re not supposed to pet the horses. Whoopsies. 😆

Polo season has arrived and I am here for it. From now until October 12th, you can spend your Sundays in style watching exciting matches at @santabarbarapoloclub! 🐎 

Don’t forget to wear a hat and flats or wedges for halftime Champagne divot stomping! 🥂 

Tickets: https://sbpolo.ticketsauce.com 🎟️ 
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Are you also a fan of these things? 🤔 Let me Are you also a fan of these things? 🤔 

Let me know in the comments! 🩷
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If only my hair looked like this every day 🙏 If only my hair looked like this every day 🙏 

Throwing it back to my shoot with @boudoir_with_jess. I already want to do another one lol. If you’re interested, mention my name to save when booking with Jess! 📸 

Have you ever done a boudoir shoot? Are you thinking about booking one? 🤔 

Spray tan: @beautifulyoumontecito 
Hair & makeup: @805makeup 
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And I’m probably wearing a big dumb sun hat and And I’m probably wearing a big dumb sun hat and speaking to the rooster in high-pitched English (on a French island). 🐓 

Oh well lol. 🤷‍♀️ What touristy traits do you embrace when you’re traveling? 😜
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Heading into the weekend like… 😎 Should be a Heading into the weekend like… 😎

Should be a beautiful weekend in SB! ☀️ 

Any fun plans? Patrick planned a fun date night for us tonight, and I can’t wait! 🍸

Outfit: @dylanstarboutique 
Photos: @marracreative 
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Gotta love a DIY project! I had some matchbooks sa Gotta love a DIY project! I had some matchbooks saved, and then we were also gifted some vintage ones! For a first-time project, I think they turned out pretty well! 👏🏻 

Collect your matchbooks and get all the craft materials here: https://www.amazon.com/shop/thebetslife/list/2F6IQ1Q2X7X35?ref_=aipsflist 🛒 

- Mod Podge your matchbooks and matchsticks. You can use a small paint brush or a sponge brush. I found that I had some discoloration on the white/lighter boxes, so maybe do a couple of coats on those to be safe? Or maybe go for darker colors? I did one coat of Mod Podge on everything. I let everything dry out for a day (although, I don’t think you would have to wait this long).

-  Follow the instructions on the box of the epoxy resin. Wear gloves and mix equal parts, stirring together for a few minutes. I mixed in plastic red cups that I later disposed of. Fill the coaster mold cups halfway with the mixture. 

- I waited 1 hour until the mixture was a bit tacky and then I added the matchbooks. The matchsticks/books may move around a bit, and you can always use tweezers to reposition.

- I waited 5 hours and then filled the rest of the molds up to the top with more epoxy resin. Leave molds for 24 hours and then remove. The coasters should pop out easily! 

What do you think of these? Let me know how your coasters turn out too! Share this video with your DIY/crafty friends. 🥰
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